I know it seems strange to feel so awful when she says that I'm the only reason for her existence. But I can't be happy for that! It's not right, you know? She stopped everything in her life once and she doesn't need that again... It's not going to work like this! We can't live like this! I had this in my first relationship too.
The point is that when a relationship is like this, someone has the life stopped while the other progresses somehow. With me I stopped everything in my life to make Thaís move. Now she is a graduated woman and I'm not. With her she stopped everything as well and he started to study again. Nobody has the energy to live two lives! To be the reason of two existences. A relationship must be based in something else. You need to love yourself, to value yourself. So you can love someone else. This is the only way to get there, you know? The only way to make things work. Otherwise, it will always be based in compensations, inequality and unbalance.
So what do I want, right? I want her to feel free to do whatever she wants. I want her to know that I am here for her. I'm here to help her in everything she needs! I want her to have projects and plans. We are two different people and we have two different lives. She must have her own dreams as I do. We decided to live our lives together and not to throw away one of them.
